Getting rid of sexualized programming in your home may present some tough parenting challenges. Telling your teen that you are eliminating one of their favorite TV channels could result in frustration on their part and conflict between you. Following are some methods you can use to communicate fairly and openly with your child. Remember to approach these matters in a spirit of openness and collaboration. Stay away from language that is accusatory or condemning.
- Sit down together and watch parts of the offending programs and talk through the messages that are being presented.
- Ask your youngster the following questions:
- Does the programming, dialogue, images, music videos or song lyrics reflect the values you hold to be true?
- Does it encourage you to overstep your personal sexual boundaries?
- Has it influenced your values regarding same-sex relationships?
- Does it reflect the values of your friends?
- How do your values compare/contrast with what we’ve been teaching you in our home?
- Invite dialogue not only with your kids but also with their peers. Encourage your youngster to discuss these things with their friends.
- Be open to hearing their opinions and thoughts regarding why they watch certain programs and the impact on them and their friendships.
